The Life and Legacy of My Grandfather Anar Khan

Chaudhry Anar Khan Khandowa – Former Havilder of the Khandowa Tribe, Pakistan, who served in both the 1965 and 1971 wars.

My grandfather, Anar Khan, who led a life filled with simplicity, honor, and hard work, remains a figure of great inspiration and admiration in our family. His journey through life, his sacrifices, and his values continue to inspire us all. This article aims to highlight his achievements and the legacy he left behind, preserving his memory for future generations.

Early Life and Birth

Anar Khan was born in 1940 in the village of Choran. He was raised in a family that belonged to the Chohan Rajput clan, a group with a long history of courage and valor. His father, Sardar Khan, was a respected figure in the community, and his upbringing instilled in Anar Khan a deep sense of responsibility, hard work, and integrity. From a young age, he was taught the importance of humility and service to others.

Military Career and Participation in Wars

Following the creation of Pakistan, Anar Khan joined the Pakistan Army at the age of 15. He served in the Punjab Regiment and played a significant role in several key military engagements. Anar Khan participated in the 1965 War and the 1971 War, where his bravery and commitment to the defense of his country stood out. In recognition of his courageous service, he was awarded several honors, including a sword as a special reward for his efforts. His military service was a testament to his dedication and love for his homeland.

Retirement and Business Ventures

After retiring from the army, Anar Khan started a new chapter in his life by moving to Dalmian in the 1975 decade. He joined the Dandot National Cement Industry, where he initially worked as a security guard. Over time, his dedication and strong work ethic led him to become involved in the business side of the industry. He opened a small shop in the area, which provided a steady income for his family and became a place where he interacted with the local community. His journey from a humble security guard to a businessman was a result of his tireless work and determination.

Connection with Family and the Community

Anar Khan was not just a family man; he was a community leader. He maintained strong ties with his children, grandchildren, and extended family, always treating them with love, respect, and kindness. He was deeply involved in his community and was known for his willingness to help others. Whether it was a sick neighbor or someone in need, Anar Khan was always the first to offer his assistance. His presence was felt by everyone who knew him, and he was always there for those in need.

Helping Others and His Legacy

One of the most remarkable aspects of Anar Khan's character was his dedication to helping others. It was a regular occurrence for him to visit sick individuals as soon as he heard about their illness, offering comfort and care. His selflessness was a defining feature of his life, and it left a lasting impression on everyone around him. Whether it was a simple act of kindness or a major gesture, Anar Khan always put others before himself.

His Passing and Final Resting Place

On February 23, 2016, I received the difficult news while working in Saudi Arabia that my beloved grandfather, Anar Khan, had passed away. His departure was a deeply sorrowful moment for our family, and it left an irreplaceable void. However, as the Quran reminds us, “Every soul shall taste death.” It was a natural part of life, and we were comforted by the thought that he had returned to his Creator.

Anar Khan was laid to rest in Dandot RS Cemetery, where his grave has become a place of remembrance for those who knew him. I request that all friends and relatives pray for his soul, recite Surah Al-Fatiha and offer their prayers for his forgiveness, so that Allah may grant him peace in the Hereafter.

Conclusion

The life of my grandfather, Anar Khan, is a story of simplicity, dedication, and love. His legacy lives on through his children, grandchildren, and everyone whose life he touched. He taught us that the true measure of a person is not found in wealth or fame, but in their kindness, humility, and service to others. I write this article as a tribute to his memory, so that his life and teachings may continue to inspire future generations.

Written by:

Chaudhry Muhammad Ehsan Khandowa 

(Researcher and Preserver of Family History)